Also, these problems i've stated above are actually very trivial and while it's hard sometimes with the way I have to interact with him around people that don't officially know, it's not what makes the relationship and I care more about him than if people know. With me its the opposite. I never thought this would happen. I dont care i just know my life now revolves around this young man. I think love wins above all. .
Our relationship was sweet, fun, and sexy. There are only so many things a 20-year-old will do until the wee hours of the morning. Anonymous Here goes, I just turned 50 and tomorrow, I will be going out on a lunch date with a 31 year old, he's 19 years my junior! Where men judged women online profiles on a bell curve as it should be. Not because of or despite any other reason. I could stand to lose about 50 lbs.
At least, I'm told that the young guy wants someone his age or younger whom he can have babies with… What do you guys think? Anonymous I am 28 and dating a 22 year old guy. Found out later he was a father again, only because I ran into him. The only problem though is that despite the fact that things are going extremely well between us, I have the deep conviction that it is bound to end. The age difference is just a number. We are excellent friends — good, good friends — but I'm a realist. I never realized I was this pretty.
He possessed the 3 important requirements that fit my need: chemistry, compatibility, and emotionally and physically attraction. I thank Evan for his advice and insight, his reading recommendations, and his encouragement through this process! He was practically living with me before that but not really. Not sure I agree with everything but in general it makes sense. I dont look ancient but he looks younger than 20 to me. Our 25 year difference might not matter now, but 20 years from now it would be a huge deal, and I could not do that to him. He dates women of all ages, not just those substantially younger than him.
Corrupted may be a better word. I also think he is using you for security and stability while he plays elsewhere. Maybe one day I will…. After all, my car was broken into on Tuesday! She says she feels more comfortable with me than with any other guy she's met. We were friends 1st but I don't know if he's ready for what I'm ready for.
The benefits are mutual in both extremely distinctly different ways, as well as extremely similar… I am grateful that this young man pursued me as he did and that I eventually opened up to it all… It has been a while that I felt like a Woman, desired, admired, beautiful, and appreciated… I am more relaxed, feel sexy, and am getting back into my prime physical shape …lol… and my business is flourishing… And most important, I enjoy myself when I am with him…and I smile…a lot. So yeah, older girls can be more mature and just generally less of a hassle than girls younger than us. In other words a successful 35 — 45 year old woman more in his age range would kick him to the curb. We have a strong connection. We are getting an apartment together next week actually, his idea. But then I suddenly want to jump on some 40 year old average joe.
Sylvie Nice to hear your comment, I am having sex with a 30 yr old, I am almost54, he makes me feel young again, he keeps telling me he loves me I finally told him I love him, but he still wants to have sex with other women, he holds my hand kisses me, and hugs me in public. We never would have dated if we didn't work together for 3 months. As long as you continue to see this guy, you will be paranoid. Either it would go nowhere, or I would have a less boring week. The vast majority have never killed anyone. He shows affection, love, we laugh and play but then he shifts back into his mood.
Im 36 with just a high school diploma and a mother to a 6year old boy. When you were in your early 20s 20-24 I can understan completely. I am now 48 and in a loving exclusive relationship with a 23yo. I wish it worked for me. They love hanging with her but are often embarassed to bring her around their friends.
He's selfless, kind, thoughtful, supportive, and mature. I turned 29 the day I met him and he will be 21 sometime soon. But I am nervous about how family would react. So I really each and every minute I spend with him. Never said a negative word to me.
Your life will be a lot more fulfilling in the long-run if you can develop a satisfying long-term relationship. There is nothing wrong or gross or manipulative about dating a younger man. The point I brought up in my first post is that I see this a lot, human relationships being measured by the biological age and basically nothing else. I've dated 2, 3 years older than me but it turned out to be hell. I want to get married and have children. He says its nothing that im doing he just doesn't know where he's going. Unlike you, I tried to second guess God.