He fessed up and admitted to the affair after trying to lie his way out of it, and said that the woman was a teacher. Some days im ok knowing that im better off without him n i deserve much better but somedays i regress into guilt n self blame. Sent me all their text messages! I told my self it was because of work and an adjustment to being home. His bride turns her back on Him continually and run towards that, which causes Him to feel betrayed. All this time I though my beloved husband was stressed from his demanding job and I needed to be supportive and not be demanding but be accommodating. Here is what you need to do.
You know what you must do…leave. I try to keep myself busy. I cannot see myself going through a next time. Have I really forgiven my boyfriend? I never had a clue. I really felt her pain and hurt but I was trying to get her to understand why I did what I did. I forgive him but when im away overseas and came back home and I found a text message again with other girl his asking her when her day off so they can hang together.
He worked long hours made every excuse slept on the sofa many night turned his back when he came to bed and I had to beg him to interact with the kids. He never had luck though, they never replied. I found out right before valentines day last year in 2014. So I called his phone, no answer. I called my husband every port we had and payphones and emailed him when I got the chance.
The only person who made me feel whole and beautiful and could always take any of my pain away. He told me two days after and begged for me to come back. You should be demanding that your husband treat you with more respect than he is. I have been intimate but forced myself. First he informed on the way to the airport the couple and the brides parents as well as the grooms that never again was he doing another thing for either of them, This was the last time he was taking the back seat willingly. So my boyfriend breakup with me because I broke the rules.
He told me about 5 months later when he fell apart to the point of being sent home from work for crying. He said due to the pressure of having a baby all of a sudden he was trying to get money together to support us. I was mad and woke my husband up and ask what question a girl needed to ask him at 6am. He has ruined me forever and what I believe about true love. I want nothing more in life to be with him…I personally was physically violent towards him after his affair…. He was in the airforce at the time. You say that your son adores his dad.
Many times I tried to be intimate with her and I got rejected or she says she was tired or not in the mood. I think it might be helpful to talk to someone who understands, who has been through it. When will it ever go away? As long as he continues to drink, I will never trust him again. Either way, low self worth is involved, because affairs are a low and pathetic thing to do. In truth, nobody is getting away with anything. He apologized a lot but I was not able to continue this relationship.
N our baby girl which is 20 months today needs her daddy. I am really mad to my so called boyfriend. My whole life was about him and us. Not only that but they have zero respect for you. I know myself enough that I could no longer remain in the relationship despite his apologies.
We love serving and volunteering and helping people. We both decided to try and continue a relationship because of our unborn child and because I loved him to death and he also said he loved me throughout our relationship but went astray due to deep depression after the breakdown of his family ex and young son ; a depression that he had been in for pretty much the duration of our time together. He wants to work things out with me and continue forward. You may really get your relationship to work out and come to a new understanding. From that moment I My life was nothing but a lie.