Thursday of last week she got a laywer and asked to get legally separated so we both could be protected incase one of us went crazy. . I tried but failed again it deteriorated even further as years went by ,the cheating never stopped I would see texts from his phone about his affairs and the late nights continued. She was married before and this is my first. Your violent response also broke trust. I feel she will not love me like she used to coz she always says I ruined her life.
Hoping if I continue, her feelings for me will slowly return. Is there anything I can do to win him back? During those two months, I have cried in front of her, begged her to give us another chance, that I will be a better husband. It is my sincere hope and Prayer that we will look back on this time and see that we needed this trial to get to the happiness I hope we find. I totally disagree though with trying to do it alone. We have been apart for 4 weeks.
And she moved out we still talk every day. I want to be with him and no one else, he is the only man I have ever loved and I cannot even imagine what it would be like without him by my side. You can make your wife fall with you, all over again. Six months later and him six months sober, he relapsed again. We went to counseling yesterday and she was more worried about the time we were there than fixing any issues that we have.
If this is the case, you do need to take her very seriously, Because if her intervention does not work, she will soon be divorcing you. July 2013 — I became the happiest man alive by becoming a dad to a little girl. I just want to feel special and loved. Does it trigger something from your childhood? I suggest you begin now to look at your own support system and reach out to those people who can be caring and supportive of you as you move into the future. My childhood sweetheart we met when I was 15 and and she was 14 thirty three years ago , asked for a separation one day before our 25th wedding anniversary after she found out I cheated on her multiple times with different people over the last ten years of our marriage.
Its the same kind of commitment that a parent often makes when their child is in trouble and in danger. Rather than continuing to give in to him, get strong enough to leave. I have also gotten a second job in the afternoon to occupy my time to get me away from everything. If he really wants to make things work, why is he doing everything he can to hurt my feelings at the time I am at my lowest? We have decided we are going to still live together for the moment, but we will be in different bedrooms. I made a mistake about a year ago of cheating on him.
But as of right now, she still wants me to move out which I am moving out next week. Me and my husband have been married for 12 years now, which was good most of the times. I know God lives and I trust him to bless me through the atonement of his Son Jesus Christ. Yes, this relationship is hopeless. Like I know she may need space but with all the other stuff she is keeping secret and even kissing another guy a few weeks back I am at the end. She was embarrassed and sad all the same time.
I keep praying to god asking forgiveness and I sit at my grandmothers grave site to ask forgiveness and assistance in life. A month ago she stopped sleeping in our bed and blamed my snoring. Presently I am the happiest man on the planet, I have met a woman that I am in love with. I do not know if I can rebuild our relationship, or if there is more trouble ahead. The problem with unemotional men is that it is easy to read things into their behaviour.
He told me that he is unhappy with our relationship, he isnt in love with me anymore and he is just unhappy with everything in general. If not, then get help or you will be living a very lonely life and by the time you get the courage to take care of yourself you will have lost yourself. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I suggested a trial seperation so that he could have some time to think things over and maybe we could start over and rebuild from the ground up. It went as far as me signing my wifes name to a withdrawal slip on her account to get money. While we were still together, I brought up marriage counseling and he blew it off. Agree with their negative feelings.
The strange thing is, is when the counselor wanted to talk to us individually, he asked my wife if there was infidelity on her part and she said no. Dear Yafre, My suggestion is that you ask him to go to marriage therapy with you. She tends to run from her problems and to her I always come last. I don't blame her if she does not take me back but I love her enough to fight to the end to salvage this marriage. Time, healing, meditation, an epiphany every now and then.
My guess is that you get emotional quite understandably and then he feels guilt, shameful and defensive. See article on for more information. I went through the phone bill and found a number and called the number back and sure it was a female. Do not fall for it or allow your moments of wanting to cling to him fool you into having sex with him in the hopes that the sex will bring him back. Go see a comedy at the movie theater, go to the mall, go to concerts-just have fun. Please help me fix this so that my marriage does not end.