Just remember that the other part of the equation here is what your partner is ready for and interested in, too, and that some of your sexual discussion should also be about sex safety. Or, if you're more direct, and your partner has already made clear that he or she would like to try giving you , then a Why don't you lick me? It is not meant to and cannot substitute for advice or care provided by an in-person medical professional. That only makes everything feel better, but it also makes it easier to come as well. People who have healthy, satisfying sex lives talk to each other about sex openly. Does a kiss feel better without a beard? Sex October 13, 2014 Congratulations, head enthusiast; you're about to experience Head Games, a weekly column where we discuss oral sex with people from all walks of life. What the best thing is for you to say is all about you: we should all be writing our own scripts when it comes to sex.
This week, we're focusing on those of you that have a vagina attached to the lower half of your body and how you can make getting eaten out better for everyone involved. Of course, there's the tried-and-true missionary positions of cunnilingus, which is when you're laying on your back with your legs spread apart. Sometimes, if your clit isn't ultra-sensitive, going under the hood can feel in sane. Think about what turns you on; and focus on it. Some folks enjoy oral sex while lying on their back, others while sitting on the edge of a bed or chair, others while standing or on all fours, others while sitting on a partner's mouth. How is their interpretation of you your problem? Getting head is all about your pleasure.
For more on oral sex, see and for information on oral and other sex safety, see. You can thank me by naming your first born after me. Information on this site is provided for educational purposes. There's entire sections of anatomy books dedicated to classifying them. But basically, any way that someone can have their face on your that is also comfortable for you is a way that works.
If they can't handle what's going on down there, it's not up to you to tailor your comfort to meet their neurotic requirements. No one is going down there to judge how your vagina looks. And if they have, that's their problem. Getting head can feel really good if you're imagining shirtless Brad Pitt in his Fight Club years, or Natalie Portman, is doing it. Or, if your clit is really sensitive, sometimes it can feel really good to stretch your clit's hood laterally, so that it kind of flattens your clit a bit while keeping the skin in place. Again, getting eaten out is all about you.
Position yourself correctly The best part about getting head is how many different ways you can do it. Hair has nothing to do with pleasure. You can also stand up and put your foot on your partners shoulder while they kneel on their knees and lick you from below for an even more dominating effect. But, just like with sex, you can play getting eaten out to your own sexual preferences, which can make shit a lot hotter for you. If they're still not getting it, show them what you're talking about, either by using porn as an example, or do to their pussy or dick what you want done to yours. Whether we're covering how to connect your mouth to someone's genitals in the most pleasing way possible, or how different cultures and species blow each other, it'll be covered here, in this fellatio-friendly corner of the internet.
At the point where what's-his-face sticks his head between your legs and he's clearly about to eat you out, it no longer matters how many blades your Venus razor has or which Siberian forest your pussy currently resembles. And more blood means more horny. About beef curtains A lot of women don't like getting eaten out because they're insecure about how their pussies look. If you're both just getting used to verbally communicating about sex together, it can also work to write out your desires in letter form. You can do this in a standing position with your butt stuck out and you hands against a wall, in doggy style, or laying on your stomach. Most guys don't know to lift the hood of your clit up most girls do , but you can do it for them.
Or at least that's what the three guys at the coffee shop I'm at said when I asked them. Put all your imaginative energy into turning yourself on mentally, and the physical part will follow. Does fellatio feel better for guys when they've waxed their balls to the point of prepubescent imitation? Last time on Head Games, we turned the game of on its. If you're also asking about what given position or posture oral sex works out best in, that's something that also can go a lot of different ways, and depends a lot on what is most comfortable -- physically and emotionally -- for you and your partner. If you like being dominant, try riding face. If you're into light, long strokes, have them stick their tongue out and keep it in place while you gently run your clit along the length of it to your desired pressure and speed.
Boss them around People love taking directions. Getting head is an ode to your pleasure, a gesture that says I sincerely want to please you and will put my own pleasure aside to do it. You can get the exact kind of head you want, it's just proportional to your desire to ask for what you need. Even if you have somewhat of a lunch meat situation going on, at least there's no societal equation of labia size with sexual pleasure. Unless you're 69-ing, you sick freak. Make sure you communicate to your partner what other kinds of props or appendages you need. No one in the history of reality has ever halted at that point, stopped what they were doing, and said, Can you shave this mega forest before I lick you into oblivion? Go under the hood There's as much variation in clit sensitivity as their is in labia appearance or dick size.